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Love is risk !!

Someone told me that love is selfless , they were right.

What we give is not guarenteed that we will get in return and we also dont know that weather the person is fully into us or not ..?Strange yeah..

Many times we spend a lot time and energy , and emotional indulgance into someone who is not into us or is not willing to be with us..!! so the result is pain and suffering

But why do people face such traumas ..?

Have u ever think about it or not ..yes .From my own experience I realised that we should keep some boundries and we should know till which level we should get into intimate with our partners both emotionally and physically. As no body knows that what future is to be , yet nothing can be decided but still after going to some level of intimacy , its very hard for one in both to be get back. As being with friends is different and being with someone who is more than friend is different .

The other person should know the boundries to make with the other as all have different level of energies and its all that plays into role .

As in every relation boundries are important .It doesnt matter that u r friend , relative,mother and father or two boys are friend, even when two girls are friends it should be there .If there are no boundries the relationships fails.

As an Architect I know what works I do what is the role of civil engineers .We all have a specific field where we are masters so with respect to that for a better building of functionally and structurally. There should be boundries that should be maintained . Thus It’s important .

When the boundries are not set the works merge and tand traumas start the mutual trust and mutual respect is even lost.Even sometimes the relationships can be even so toxic than the vish (or poison) .That might harm us a lot

It would not kill us ones but keep on killing us regularly .

That would be so hard. Even in brother and sisters and father and sin there are some boundries that should be respected for a better life and long lasting relations.

So just keeping it short, we all should first set our boundries and than move forward As by being in boundries we would be more comfortable safe and even more happy we would enjoy our life to te fullest ..

try it in your life and be happy

have a nice day and keep glowing with a smile . 🙂

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life selfhelp for success

The general who wins the battle makes many calculations in the temple before the battle is fought.. The Art of War

The general who wins the battle makes many calculations in the temple before the battle is fought.. The Art of War
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life selfhelp for success

In marriages, business and in any activities,.. One must find solutions to difficulties when he encounters….. Magic of thinking big..

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life selfhelp for success

Man belongs where he wants to go..

Man belongs where he wants to go... Power of thinking big...!
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architecture

The greatest emperor crowns themselves… 48 laws of power..

The greatest emperor crowns themselves... 48 laws of power..
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architecture

Byoyancy, confidence, and the feeling that you were born to wear a crown Does everything…

Byoyancy, confidence, and the feeling that you were born to wear a crown Does everything...
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life selfhelp for success

The sense of anxiety and guilt does not come from having too much to do, it’s the automatic result of breaking agreements with yourself… Psychology of selling…

The sense of anxiety and guilt does not come from having too much to do, it's the automatic result of breaking agreements with yourself... Psychology of selling...
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architecture identity

The world needs, everything for free…

Hey, hello everyone.. Hope you all are doing well in your lives and all your family members are healthy and safe…

What a type of mindset we all have , we are dependent on our government for our food and water. In India its called ” Raashan” which the government provide for free to people who are below poverty line .But for those who are above that also take it and they sell to make money. Thus it’s still exist in our minds the “dependence on others” . But is it very good way to live a life …?

I think not people should not take things for free at least for those things or services on which someone works. Many people try to manipulate the small or youth and they often take their services for granted or for free.

The thing which has a cost should not be free. But after paying the cost people try to say that its not good or its not so worthy , or they need the money back.. The world is filled with such type of people and it shows us that why we still lagging behind .Because our mind works on the same process or thinking . We need everything for free…

As I had recently started my practise of architecture As from last one year we all are stuck at our homes . So I also tried to make use of my skills to have some sort of experience and practical knowledge. I had donefew of the projects. But at the time of paying all people say the same thing or they do a lot of effort in giving the money .I don’t know why .. ? But if they are taking my services and their work is done according to their own expectations at the minimal cost , Why they still don’t want to take out the treasure of their pocket…

Some times they pay half the money and sometimes they make us to call again and again so that we get our money… many people even want our work to be in free they want to see the work or many try to compare the work of two or three with us .. Designs are client specific and they are done in the same way…

Also in adding to your knowledge – nothing is good or bad in design . JUST THERE IS A GROUND THAT DESIGN SERVES THE FUNCTION TO THE MAXIMUM .

If you are making your new project or searching for a designer ,I can help you out .

thankyou for giving your beautiful time and do like share and give your experience of your field and work….

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Make your master a gift of your talents, and you will rise above all….

Make your master a gift of your talents and you will rise above all... . 48 laws of power..
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In matter of taste.. Your master’s poetry is sublime, his dress is impeccable, and his manner is modal for all… 48 laws of power .

In matter of taste.. Your master's poetry is sublime, his dress is impeccable, and his manner is modal for all... 48 laws of power .