Time passes , we all come back to our home from all the parts of the world.. It’s a beautiful present of festivals that bound us to our roots.It makes us realise that life is a fun. Take a break from your busy schedule and give some time to your family and relatives. It’s a beautiful chakra that works each year after year and it also moves around.
I’m our hindu culture we have almost every day with a new function but why do we focus more on these two festivals holi and Diwali.. Have you ever thought of this. There is a logical reason behind it why do we have these two festivals as a major. India is a land of agriculture. Our ancestors do farming at a large scale or we can say that our primary occupation is farming.but today the more and more industrilisation took place that leads to the shift of people away from farming. There are many other reason like.
No security-As by floods and natural phenomena or other disasters all the crops might get lost that leads to the condition of poverty. Which makes people shift away from this.
As this time in India the climatic conditions are favourable and the Rahi crops are being harvested. And kharif crops are being sown. So all the people during older times used to celebrate this time with their family members. This these two festival has its own importance.
Thus in order to preserve our old traditions and values we should celebrate the Holi along with our family and also we should forget all the old anger and other issues that are within our innerselves with others and we should learn to love and respect.. This is the lesson that the festivals teach us. The Holi is a symbolism that we should make our life full of colours and spread happiness..
Thankyou for giving your precious time and do share your thoughts and beautiful experiences of Holi. 😅
On reaching maturity and going through the ups and downs of life this is what the true meaning of life is ..
These are some of the lessons that we all have seen or learned as we grow in our life. This is truth.
The Power is the one thing which rules the world. The whole human human civillisation is based on it. The one who has ‘power’ is the one who is ‘loved’ by all. Or we can say that the one who has power is needed by all . This means that this world needs nothing from you when you are weak or you have a hard time . This realisation lay us into the bed of arrows.
People want you only, when you have money a, fame or power. Its a evidence from history till date For example-
This is a vicious circle where we all running.,like a rattrap
As moving ahead I have a lot question in my mind which are unanswered. But before writing this post I have also changed my views and I had selected my life over a relationship. That a girl needs from me . This is truth she is a girl might got marry the other men but what about me who will come along with me If I’m not so rich. Or I don’t have a government Job. Even all the things change. Might be she was not meant for me or I had not meant for her. Or there is a lack of trust among us. She don’t has faith on me or I don’t have on her too.
One question always remains in our mind that -Should our friends stay with us if we are not successful or should our relatives accept us even when we don’t have a bulk of money. I think no. the truth is that we only call our friends when we need them,we generally never ask them how they are or what is happening in their lives. It is truly said in a book that I recently read that -“our circle is getting bigger but the main connection is getting diminished or lost “. It’s very true.
The truth is that no one cares about you We only responsible for our own self. Even love is nothing more than a lust or a mutual needs. No one remains with you during hard times . We only have trust on our parents whom we can blindly trust. No one cares for us. Or for our needs.
Isn’t the question that we all face or have in our mind. What to do with out own self. Should we get affected by the circumstances or ups and downs of life. And what if you are emotional and you think a lot for all. Who will help you and who is with you. Who are our true friends or when we need them the most.. Or who should be our friends who can help us in our lives…?
As I had read many books and also observed that the main purpose of life is to find a purpose. And everything is revolved around that point. Our every decision and things are based on this factor. The destiny is nothing but more or less than what we made from our life . Our friends our life is all this . During the hard time we have faith in God and during the Good time we say God is happy. But according to me when we are focussed in our life or when we are more directed towards a definite goal we don’t have time to think about time. About what is time and how it is passing . According to Dr.Victor Frankel the author of book ‘Man Search for Meaning’. Our life is nothing but is full of sufferings. We have problems and tensions with us as it is observed that the person who dont have money worries how to get that but a man who has is worried how to use the money. The same exist with all of us. And its true that life is full of sufferings. But the same thing is that the time does not always remains the same. What conditions on faces at one time is easily replaced by the time. Time heals . And time is all what is life…!!
Coming to what is people and what are their needs and what are their desire. They always try to connect to themselves with a big . As we see during the times of elections event the small children call themselves
“hum ounhike kaaryakarta hain”
same they don’t know even how to clean their shits are doing the support for the one party. This is true and practically proved too. Thus now coming back to the topic that what should be the purpose, what are the needs and what is Destiny ..!! who are our friends and what should be the life ..!!
Now giving a brief of what I’m trying to say and what I have understood from my life is that-
Thankyou for your precious time . Please do make efforts to give your comments and also correct me if I’m less correcrt or I get out of track. 🙂
always laugh my friend
Asking for help is one of the best strategy used by the wise men .Seeking advice and asking for help, it really helps. This‘ life is short and we have a little time to achieve goals’. One has to adopt the habit of asking help in this competetive world. This idea would be more clear, when you will stick to my words till the end of this blog.
As according to time, we adapt ourselves according to our enviornment .(rule of the science ‘Survival of the Fittest‘) .The one who is more adaptive and advanced survives. Similarly we have to modify ourselves according to time and conditions. It is well said that-
So ,according to above concept and the theme if this post-
…. fails .This concept is good for a short span or small victory but to achieve more its not worthy to do all things alone.
To achieve the public victory( refer to book- The 7 Habits of Effective people by Coveys Stephan)you have to rely on others for your need. This is more practical concept and proved too…(I am not encouraging to be selfish, be clear to what I say and find the boundry of my words).This depends on the law of ‘GIVE AND TAKE‘. If you will help others than only others will help you .Simple,follow this rule and keep moving on.
The whole world is now flying on the wings of modernisation and technology. We have abundance of money and all the materialistic things that we gather for our comfort. But what we lack is the time -‘God father of everything on this planet’. We have so little of this for our ownself.
Not going to deep and trying to be specific and focussed .Let me explain the gifts when we ask for help.
1-TIME–Time is the one of the best asset that we have .Its profit depends on how we invest it…?In every proffessional field he proffessionals have a good workload
Thus, to enhance our efficiency and to and to do a large work within a given time frame. It does not shows that we are weak but it gives them the importance that they are being recognised and they are capable of doing something for others.
2-RELATIONSHIPS- In all this process we get engaged with others. And its natural when we ask for help than there is some type of communication .No matter what it be but it builds the relationship with the other person. It gives you two profits
- your work is being completed
- you get one more friend in your life
3-VISION-whenever we ask for help than there are two probabilities
- the other will help
- or not help
When they select the first than the two minds come into play and and the work would be far better and we will get a broad vision for ourself.
(If they help than they will surely give there best services to you,if they don’t than don’t mind, might be they don’t know how to do the work.? or they might facing there own work or problems. Better ask other and save your time.)
4- PERSPECTIVE -Manytimes
‘ our 6 is 9 for others ‘
What we see might be different for the other. At the same time we both are correct in our own ways. Here we get one mire gift from asking for help. As this develops our perspective for a long term. Sometimes the situations are like that we think we are doing right but reality is that we are
‘kuyein ka medhak’(means the ‘ frog of the well’ or ‘the world is limited only to that small well in which the frog lives’)
thus our all vivek( from hindi meaning wisdom or mind) got bhrashta( from hindi meaning destroyed or lost) ,we put ourselves to problems . thus when we ask for help ,we get possibilities of correcting ourselves .A step towards success.
5- BOOST MENTAL HEALTH -This we all relate more clearly .Many a times we got stuck in our work but somehow we are not able to do it or complete it. We got frustated so easily and our efficiency comes down. In a parallel world we are sowing the seeds of anxiety ,pressure, tension and stress in our mind. Biggest enemy for all success.
For a long term it leads to Craving( a state of unbalance between the mind and body)according to Buddhist and Sadhus( refer to book -The Attention revolution- Unlocking the Power of the Focussed Mind by B.ALAN WALACE).The strategy is simple .The life is simple. So ask for help…. you will not become small or weak but you will become more wise and effecient for a along term . No need to hesitate ,ask it from anyone who is near you.
Here also we get two profits
- work is done
- reduced stress and worry
- money is saved as there is no need to give money to the doctors in future
Yet there are many more benefits as asking for help also cultivate the communication skills and your personality is developed. You will achieve success in both of your personal as well as proffessional life . And soon you will work more efficiently in all the areas of your life.
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