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No, not from outside the box ..!!

Hey ,a very good morning to all my dear friends and great writers here. Hope you all are doing well in your life. Having a good salary , Loving family, and a Great health must be with all of you. But wait why did I said that not going outside , instead searching at great depth actually makes all changes.

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Yes its true, when we take a decision for our life . When one major decision may have a greater impact on our lives in coming future. Than there is a need to search for new perspective .No one knows us better than we know our ownself .Yes sure they can give us some kinda imformation or share there experience .Therefore going outside can be sometimes so harmfull for us.

A new idea, a new perspective, a new approach is always there in finding something great. But when there is historical knowledge about that subject .As this world is more like this . We all are made up of small units that com bine to form a whole system . The whole universe works this way. As according to law of conservation, energy is neither created nor destroyed. For a greater picture one should think more clearly from inside.

Weather its for the spiritual journey, relationships or any desease. Everything works from inside .Its quiet impossible that we see medicine and we get cured untill and unless the medicine goes inside we can’t do anything for our wellbeing . All other things are just illusions and we usually get fooled by them .

We are humans and our whole life is precious and we become old by living our life neither of mother nor of mother and not of our bedpartner. We all have our set of beliefs and our journey is special and unique in its own way. How can we be dependent on other for our life decisions .Why should we ask our neighbour that what is good and what is bad for us ..?

Isn’t a good thing to think upon. Also all spiritual gurus and even Bhagvata Gita also tells us about this mystry .

Thankyou for giving your beautiful time and pain for reading the whole article .Do drop a comment in the comment box so that I can understand and realise your viewpoint on this …

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Love– no nothing like that..

This post is quiet straight forward. And it’s my request if you are fit with my words, than please if I’m wrong than do correct me…

There is nothing like love in this world…. May be initially it gives us happiness.. Or pleasure but if we look deeply into all our relationships we will found that all relationships in this world are totally made on the foundation of NEEDS…

Some need partners to keep their loneliness far, some for the emotional needs, and many for the physical pleasure,. Once they get all this or they become bored, they leave keeping the other as they were before..

Once needs are fulfilled no one remains.. And all relations are made on the foundation of needs.

When the main family member of the family dies, MAIN means mukhiya Or so called a person who has the responsibility of the family, generally in India “Father” Or “papa ji”…. All needs of the family are totally dependent on him. When they are gone the whole family is break. Not because they love, but because now who will help them to do their “pet puja” or ” Feeding of family”…..

Nowadays feelings are nothing, as I heard this , when I was talking to my friend few days before what I found is that…. Her father has been found with a deadly disease called Cancer. And it’s only 6 months time for him. She was talking to me and she not even one time said to me that she loves her father, but she was constantly emphasizing that how will she manage the home, or how will her and her little brother education will go…

Might be the reason that age was trying to be hard to me or else she does not love her father or whatever… But than I realised one thing that we all are dependent on one other and those basic needs are the reasons that why we make relations. Marriage is also the same as in doing so one persons all demands of life are met he / she gets a partner whome they can share all the happiness and pains together and also to grow their next generation…..

This is all what I was thinking from last 1 hour I thought of it to share with you all…. Do give your views and comments… That what I think is right or partially right… And give your opinions and perspective…..

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Life and love generate effort, but effort does not generate them…. Deep and its quiet true…

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The power of writing..!!

“this article is a key to a huge success”.

I will try to discuss a miracle which happen to us when we start writing things. It just acts like a pencil of sheke-laka-bo0om-bo0om– ‘ which Indians must remember. The serial we see in our childhood (born in 90’s).The thing which we draw actually becomes reality. The twist here is that, we need not to become artist but instead we have to just write instead of drawing.

The power of writing is that it brings power and all the ultimate fame and fortune in your life. This is the secret that usually all great men do. We all have heard that ‘writing a goal on a peace of paper actually clears half of our journey towards achieving it’. This is true , according to what I personally realised and observed. Also I have heard and seen the stories of all great men and people. They all do this .

Their is a whole psychology behind this. The ‘law of attraction‘gains magnetism and all the supernatural power of the world showers us with blessing. It is proven by science also. We all have heard our dadaji and dadiji and also papaji ( grand father ,grand mother and father taken in order)have scolded us to write question-answers again and again in order to remember them for a long time. And it truely works. Moreover it retains in our mind till the end of our lives .

Let me discuss some of the benefits of writing –

TO FIND INNERSELVES-During the bad times or during the hard times, when we lost our close one or during the fall of our business or health. Writing acts as a’ jadibooti‘( old medicine used in the Indian culture and is been mentioned in the religious book of Hindu in Geeta) which cures all the sufferings and help us to pass the bad time .It also gives strength and inner power to absorb all the pain and to resist the same.

FOR ACHIEVING GOALS -As I already mentioned that we cross our journey half when we write our goals. It acts as a foundation for all the victories. When we write the things something happens inside our body and mind. What ever we write its just acts in a same way. The Same way in which a computer works , when a programmer writes the codes for the software the same things happens within our mind. Whatever we write get feeded in our minds .It acts in a same way and the output is visible in the real world. It all depends on the programmer how he codes for the software thus all is same for us whatever we write good or bad actually happens in the real world. Our subconcious mind works at peak ,and attracts what we write. It will actually happen in the real world as its, been mentioned by the Napoleon Hill in his famous book .

POETRY AND LITERATURE -When going to the roots and trying to understand from the core what is observed is that all the great poets artist and all those masters to are related to the literature used to spend there time alone .And what they do is they keep on writing whatever comes to their mind and in this way they all got the power to instead the hearts of the people. The writing is the only thing that keeps the person motivated and also makes them to move ahead in life. It allows us to understand our selves and this ultimately helps us to understand the outer world more clearly.

TO-DO LIST – this is the modern culture which came into existence after the sharing of thaughts and ideas via internet. Many great men do this to achieve the things in our modern lives .Let me discuss why this has become more important nowadays because we all are living in the era where each and every ne has a very less time to think and achieve any thing. This method of making the list of work or task which we need to fulfil helps a lot. It keep ourselves stick to those specific tasks and also it guides us to walk towards those things. The power of our subconscious mind also helps a lot . When we write those tasks ion a piece old paper by pen ,There are 1000 % more chances of completion of those tasks. Once written down the task things will actually happen around. Weather we see the things or not . Mind plays a major role in this .

PURIFICATION OF SOUL- Whenever we write we feel light . Its the best way of keeping ourselves free from the inner pain or sufferings. Whenever we write our diary or any other thing we don’t say lie to ourselves .We are 100% sure of our feelings and after writing few pages we come to understand ourselves better by each word we write. It purifies our soul and also makes us more aware about our inner soul. This is all needed to find all victories in this world .

CURRENT SCENERIO – The current scenerio is that now we all are so much dependent on the digital medium we had lost the essence of writing the letters to our loved ones with our hands by the pen or ink .This created the boundries between the soul. IT IS MENTIONED IN THAT BOOK ‘HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND FINFLUENCE PEOPLE IN MODERN WORLD THAT WE ALL in this digital age we all are connected to millions but we actually not really connected to any one of them” This is actually true. We lost the soul connection only because we don’t write by pen , when we write by pen our feelings overflow the peice of paper with love. Might be the reason that why relationships now only limited to the lust and sex.

MENTAL ILLNESS and all separation from the real world and all loss from oneself.-The reason here is also the same. When we don’t write our fears, anxiety ,tension or don’t give the the outside path .There is a dense crowd of such negativities in our inner world which is than filled up with the pain, agony and lack of confidence in ourselves Which bring the mental deseases like Bipolardisorers and many other.

REMEMBERANCE OF TRUE LOVE -Did you taught why the love during the older times stayed for a long them because there exist the love on the piece of paper on which someone writes and express there emotions . But now in this digital age we keep ourselves connected to millions and we don’t even try to write letters to our loved ones . This brings some lack of romance between the two souls . This might be the one reason I’m not against the digital age but what I say is that we should not forget our old cultures and traditions ,rather we should use those traditional methods to have some flames in our romantic lifes.

Not keeping the topic so large in a conclusion ,I would like to share that we all should start the old fashion of writing the things down .It will bring change in your lives and also allows us to prosper more in this short life. It balances and helps us to efficiently manage our time and work. It also keeps us away from all the mental issues and problems . It helps us to keep motivated and acts as a guidelight to move ahead in life..!!

thankyou friend !!for giving your precious time..!! Please do like and share your views and ideas and make me aware of your thaughts .. so that I can connect to you all more deeply…. have a nice day and life ahead!!

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Modern Relationships

This is the era of social world. We all developed a habit of wearing two masks on our face.We have lost our real identity .The culture of cinemas has also changed our way of thinking and living and also gave rise to a term so called “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS”

As we are now connected to the whole world on our finger tips but day by day human beings are distancing themselves from their own identity.May be they have lost their meaning of Life. As the distance from on inner self widens,they started to search happiness in their partners.Thus the seeds for the breakups are sown.

Moreover the cinemas and serials has changed the whole definition of LOVE .They have the power to manipulate the young minds .As the builders of society ,they loose their peak time of life and indulge in such activities .Finding so called their” SOLUMATES” becomes their primary Goals.

So as a result majority of youth get in this vicious cycle .Thus their is a need to break this cycle so that these young men got a better Relationships with themselves first.And with this their life goals can be achieved.They could give their whole potential to this world .Also relationships with opposite sex had caused many youth to indulde in drinking and addictions.Also breakups leads to anxiety and many mental issues also causes suicide sometimes!!