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Make a bold demand and don’t wave over it… 48 laws of power..

Make a bold demand and don't wave over it... 48 laws of power..
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Purpose, Need and Destiny!! Friends…and….Life..?

On reaching maturity and going through the ups and downs of life this is what the true meaning of life is ..

Everything changes by time. Feelings are nothing in this world. People only think about ownselves .. -A truth of this “kalyug” . We are just born to this world at this “yug”. Everyone want their needs and once those needs are fulfilled they leave as you are nothing more than a piece of gum. This world is a very cruel place. Not everyone think of you.

-Lessons of life

These are some of the lessons that we all have seen or learned as we grow in our life. This is truth.

The Power is the one thing which rules the world. The whole human human civillisation is based on it. The one who has ‘power’ is the one who is ‘loved’ by all. Or we can say that the one who has power is needed by all . This means that this world needs nothing from you when you are weak or you have a hard time . This realisation lay us into the bed of arrows.

People want you only, when you have money a, fame or power. Its a evidence from history till date For example-

Even marriage system of every country is also true. Nobody wants to marry their girls to the man who is not having a secured job or is not wealthy. . Even the boy’s side is also the same they also want a girl who is able to do all household work and also does job. Who serves all the family members in need. And also good in looks.

-Reality

This is a vicious circle where we all running.,like a rattrap

As moving ahead I have a lot question in my mind which are unanswered. But before writing this post I have also changed my views and I had selected my life over a relationship. That a girl needs from me . This is truth she is a girl might got marry the other men but what about me who will come along with me If I’m not so rich. Or I don’t have a government Job. Even all the things change. Might be she was not meant for me or I had not meant for her. Or there is a lack of trust among us. She don’t has faith on me or I don’t have on her too.

One question always remains in our mind that -Should our friends stay with us if we are not successful or should our relatives accept us even when we don’t have a bulk of money. I think no. the truth is that we only call our friends when we need them,we generally never ask them how they are or what is happening in their lives. It is truly said in a book that I recently read that -“our circle is getting bigger but the main connection is getting diminished or lost “. It’s very true.

The truth is that no one cares about you We only responsible for our own self. Even love is nothing more than a lust or a mutual needs. No one remains with you during hard times . We only have trust on our parents whom we can blindly trust. No one cares for us. Or for our needs.

Besides all this what should be the purpose of our life that we live ..?

Isn’t the question that we all face or have in our mind. What to do with out own self. Should we get affected by the circumstances or ups and downs of life. And what if you are emotional and you think a lot for all. Who will help you and who is with you. Who are our true friends or when we need them the most.. Or who should be our friends who can help us in our lives…?

As I had read many books and also observed that the main purpose of life is to find a purpose. And everything is revolved around that point. Our every decision and things are based on this factor. The destiny is nothing but more or less than what we made from our life . Our friends our life is all this . During the hard time we have faith in God and during the Good time we say God is happy. But according to me when we are focussed in our life or when we are more directed towards a definite goal we don’t have time to think about time. About what is time and how it is passing . According to Dr.Victor Frankel the author of book ‘Man Search for Meaning’. Our life is nothing but is full of sufferings. We have problems and tensions with us as it is observed that the person who dont have money worries how to get that but a man who has is worried how to use the money. The same exist with all of us. And its true that life is full of sufferings. But the same thing is that the time does not always remains the same. What conditions on faces at one time is easily replaced by the time. Time heals . And time is all what is life…!!

Coming to what is people and what are their needs and what are their desire. They always try to connect to themselves with a big . As we see during the times of elections event the small children call themselves

“hum ounhike kaaryakarta hain”

same they don’t know even how to clean their shits are doing the support for the one party. This is true and practically proved too. Thus now coming back to the topic that what should be the purpose, what are the needs and what is Destiny ..!! who are our friends and what should be the life ..!!

Now giving a brief of what I’m trying to say and what I have understood from my life is that-

Life is nothing but to give it a meaning we need to give it a “purpose”. That purpose is the main thing. It decides what we do and whom we are with. It guides all decisions of our daily life and it makes us what we truely are . Our friends and our relationships are all based on this. But the game is that when you are doing Good they will remain with you. I mean that when you are in power people come to your life and when you don’t have money, fame or power they all leave. Our parents and very few people only remains with us. To live a life, we should move on a track even when its doing good or bad we should have the same response towards it. To don’t get affected by time. It’s a journey and we should enjoy each every step..

Thankyou for your precious time . Please do make efforts to give your comments and also correct me if I’m less correcrt or I get out of track. πŸ™‚

always laugh my friend
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Our Ancesters were master’s

Our mind is the onlyΒ  thing whose limits are infinite.. Hey welcome you all hope you are doing well.. Let’s discuss today about our beliefs and our old traditions in our culture..

Yesterday I attended a function I heard my father saying that ki humein kabhi bhi bura nahi bolna chahiye apne baare mein.. Means we should never talk negative about ourselves… Because within the 24 hours Maa Saraswati aprm Godess Saraswati comes to our young.. She make the things to happen..

It’s a old saying and we all believed it.  But scientifically it’s proven that our mind is so powerful it soaks all the things that we speak from our mouth.. But our mind does not has a tendency to find what is good and what is bad for us.. It’s so immature to find the difference between what is positive and what is negative.. After listening to my father I start thinking about it.. And than I realised that our ancestors know about the power of subconcious mind and also they know much more about it..

Still today many old beliefs and baatein Or thaughts of our grand fathers and gurus are 100% correct.. They are never wrong. I just like all the “kahawats” the sayings that we hear from people.. It also adds beauty to our talks and also gives us more value.. And the best thing is that they teach us much more about the life than we know..

Just a random thaught..

Please do like and share your thaughts.. πŸ˜‡.. Please share some of your favourite thaughts or sayings of your grandfathers of older people

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The power of writing..!!

“this article is a key to a huge success”.

I will try to discuss a miracle which happen to us when we start writing things. It just acts like a pencil of sheke-laka-bo0om-bo0om– ‘ which Indians must remember. The serial we see in our childhood (born in 90’s).The thing which we draw actually becomes reality. The twist here is that, we need not to become artist but instead we have to just write instead of drawing.

The power of writing is that it brings power and all the ultimate fame and fortune in your life. This is the secret that usually all great men do. We all have heard that ‘writing a goal on a peace of paper actually clears half of our journey towards achieving it’. This is true , according to what I personally realised and observed. Also I have heard and seen the stories of all great men and people. They all do this .

Their is a whole psychology behind this. The ‘law of attraction‘gains magnetism and all the supernatural power of the world showers us with blessing. It is proven by science also. We all have heard our dadaji and dadiji and also papaji ( grand father ,grand mother and father taken in order)have scolded us to write question-answers again and again in order to remember them for a long time. And it truely works. Moreover it retains in our mind till the end of our lives .

Let me discuss some of the benefits of writing –

TO FIND INNERSELVES-During the bad times or during the hard times, when we lost our close one or during the fall of our business or health. Writing acts as a’ jadibooti‘( old medicine used in the Indian culture and is been mentioned in the religious book of Hindu in Geeta) which cures all the sufferings and help us to pass the bad time .It also gives strength and inner power to absorb all the pain and to resist the same.

FOR ACHIEVING GOALS -As I already mentioned that we cross our journey half when we write our goals. It acts as a foundation for all the victories. When we write the things something happens inside our body and mind. What ever we write its just acts in a same way. The Same way in which a computer works , when a programmer writes the codes for the software the same things happens within our mind. Whatever we write get feeded in our minds .It acts in a same way and the output is visible in the real world. It all depends on the programmer how he codes for the software thus all is same for us whatever we write good or bad actually happens in the real world. Our subconcious mind works at peak ,and attracts what we write. It will actually happen in the real world as its, been mentioned by the Napoleon Hill in his famous book .

POETRY AND LITERATURE -When going to the roots and trying to understand from the core what is observed is that all the great poets artist and all those masters to are related to the literature used to spend there time alone .And what they do is they keep on writing whatever comes to their mind and in this way they all got the power to instead the hearts of the people. The writing is the only thing that keeps the person motivated and also makes them to move ahead in life. It allows us to understand our selves and this ultimately helps us to understand the outer world more clearly.

TO-DO LIST – this is the modern culture which came into existence after the sharing of thaughts and ideas via internet. Many great men do this to achieve the things in our modern lives .Let me discuss why this has become more important nowadays because we all are living in the era where each and every ne has a very less time to think and achieve any thing. This method of making the list of work or task which we need to fulfil helps a lot. It keep ourselves stick to those specific tasks and also it guides us to walk towards those things. The power of our subconscious mind also helps a lot . When we write those tasks ion a piece old paper by pen ,There are 1000 % more chances of completion of those tasks. Once written down the task things will actually happen around. Weather we see the things or not . Mind plays a major role in this .

PURIFICATION OF SOUL- Whenever we write we feel light . Its the best way of keeping ourselves free from the inner pain or sufferings. Whenever we write our diary or any other thing we don’t say lie to ourselves .We are 100% sure of our feelings and after writing few pages we come to understand ourselves better by each word we write. It purifies our soul and also makes us more aware about our inner soul. This is all needed to find all victories in this world .

CURRENT SCENERIO – The current scenerio is that now we all are so much dependent on the digital medium we had lost the essence of writing the letters to our loved ones with our hands by the pen or ink .This created the boundries between the soul. IT IS MENTIONED IN THAT BOOK ‘HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND FINFLUENCE PEOPLE IN MODERN WORLD THAT WE ALL in this digital age we all are connected to millions but we actually not really connected to any one of them” This is actually true. We lost the soul connection only because we don’t write by pen , when we write by pen our feelings overflow the peice of paper with love. Might be the reason that why relationships now only limited to the lust and sex.

MENTAL ILLNESS and all separation from the real world and all loss from oneself.-The reason here is also the same. When we don’t write our fears, anxiety ,tension or don’t give the the outside path .There is a dense crowd of such negativities in our inner world which is than filled up with the pain, agony and lack of confidence in ourselves Which bring the mental deseases like Bipolardisorers and many other.

REMEMBERANCE OF TRUE LOVE -Did you taught why the love during the older times stayed for a long them because there exist the love on the piece of paper on which someone writes and express there emotions . But now in this digital age we keep ourselves connected to millions and we don’t even try to write letters to our loved ones . This brings some lack of romance between the two souls . This might be the one reason I’m not against the digital age but what I say is that we should not forget our old cultures and traditions ,rather we should use those traditional methods to have some flames in our romantic lifes.

Not keeping the topic so large in a conclusion ,I would like to share that we all should start the old fashion of writing the things down .It will bring change in your lives and also allows us to prosper more in this short life. It balances and helps us to efficiently manage our time and work. It also keeps us away from all the mental issues and problems . It helps us to keep motivated and acts as a guidelight to move ahead in life..!!

thankyou friend !!for giving your precious time..!! Please do like and share your views and ideas and make me aware of your thaughts .. so that I can connect to you all more deeply…. have a nice day and life ahead!!

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‘Quality or Quantity’-masters do this way…!!

This post is my own observation and my own views towards the masters who served the world in their own ways. What I found and observed that there are many ways by which one can reach the top. This post is basically revolved around the idea of the services. The term” success here- means that how you gave your services to this world and how public enjoys your services.

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By keeping my ideas and approach right I would try my best to clear this concept. Many masters who are well known in their fields might have understood this concept. But to reach at the master level ,the concept which leads to the success is common in all. The methods or strategies might be different.

Its just like-

“solving a trignometric equations of tenth class –

To prove LHS and RHS equal one can do the parts separately or can take the one side and make it equal to the other side.

by -Utkarsh Mishra

It depends on the mathematician which method he proceeds .Both the methods are correct. Same is in this case. Let me explain better.

Similarly to achieve the success at the public level and to gain mastery in a particular field. The masters adopt the method which suits to them .

The two ways by which one can have a bulk of fame money and recognition.

  • QUALITY
  • QUANTITY

Third is the most advanced and effective method which I found and analysed. I will put more empahsis on the third and will elaborate the methodology and strategies envolved in this method. I’m sure you will realise and understand the importance of the third one. I will give you the examples and ideas too.Please go through the end of the post.

QUALITY-This forms the basic of all success .But Alone Quality does not makes you a successful.In some cases its risky to give your 100% in this because of the boundations of time and other demands.Yet Quality the one of the keyfactors of achieving the success but its not alone that gives too.

  • But sometimes doing a good quality work does not only makes us successful in the creative fields where the success means the ‘peice of work which is loved by the audience’.
  • The Artist or the person who do the work does not knows which work would reach the larger audience or which song reaches the billion views on youtube or which project got the more recognition. Its too risky and to depend only on your quality work in this small life is like making the big digs for your ownself. You will get everything but it might consume your whole life. (its just my opinion don’t take it as a benchmark)
  • Second thing comes is also the luck factor but mostly the luck is the output of our thaughts and actions .So to be on the safe side qwe should maintain our quality weather we are in school ,college ,working as a Employee or whatever may be.As Quality is one of the keyfactor.

QUANTITY-Its also a strategy used by all and it builds our confidence and also adds to our portfolio a another weightage.

Doing a quantity of work allows us to open many gates for success.But doing only Quantity does not means that we give our services unriped or of low quality. It’s also found that doing a quantity of work within the certain time frame increases our productivity and also makes us more efficient .Our creativity boost and flourishes.It also trains our mind towards more problem solving abilities. But let me make more clear that how the quantity is not only tat makes us masters.

Its just like having a lot of crackers in Diwali and none of the crackers has a good sound and lightening . Our Diwali might get Dimmed .

But having some good crackers sound and crackling effect makes a long lasting impressions in our memories. We might remember it till next Diwali.. πŸ™‚

by-UTKARSH MISHRA

Now coming to end of my article and also in order to give the fine strategies let me discuss the THIRD one which I Gave the Name –‘QUATITY’

As the name suggest it says all that its the product of both quantity and quality .

"Quality+Quantity= QUATITY"

To become the master we need understand how our mind works and how to work .This path is hard yet the safest. One needs to stick and also dedicated towards the work .As to achieve success there is no shortcut and to be successfull it takes a lot time and efforts. Yet, if we follow this method I assure that we can be successfull. Our success than will have some meaning and carries weightage. It will not vanish easily and no one can make you fall ,only if you are honest towards the work.

Let me share a example so that you can easily understand and relate my work.

Let me give you the three S’s-

  • Saves time
  • Safest side
  • Success is assured.

Taking examples of Rabindra Nath Tagore ,Eminem ,Jaha Hadid-these are the masters who are till date remembered and will be remembered for all the ages .First one is the poet(First Indian who recieved the Noble Prize and also who wrote National Anthem for two nation -INDIA AND BANGLADESH , second is a Rapper(known as Rap God ) ,third is a Female Architect (she is remembered for her Iconic works in the field of Architecture)

Their method of working is much more and they are all masters in their fields.The basic factor that seperates them among the croud is that their work is more advanced.They all are dedicated towards their work. They also do a QUANTITY of work along with QUALITY forms the basis of their works. Rabindra Nath Tagore started writing from the very young age and keeps on polishing his skills. Which Ultimately improves his quality. Eminem Releases his album but only of the songs got so much publicity and recognition. Jaha Hadid did the same .

There should be a balance between the quantity and quality. The facts is to keep working both on quantity and quality. One of your work would be a stardom. This converts a Man to a Master.

thankyou for giving your precious time and please give your opinions and views only because of your time and opinions I’m consistense of my work..:)