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This post is quiet straight forward. And it’s my request if you are fit with my words, than please if I’m wrong than do correct me…
There is nothing like love in this world…. May be initially it gives us happiness.. Or pleasure but if we look deeply into all our relationships we will found that all relationships in this world are totally made on the foundation of NEEDS…
Some need partners to keep their loneliness far, some for the emotional needs, and many for the physical pleasure,. Once they get all this or they become bored, they leave keeping the other as they were before..
Once needs are fulfilled no one remains.. And all relations are made on the foundation of needs.
When the main family member of the family dies, MAIN means mukhiya Or so called a person who has the responsibility of the family, generally in India “Father” Or “papa ji”…. All needs of the family are totally dependent on him. When they are gone the whole family is break. Not because they love, but because now who will help them to do their “pet puja” or ” Feeding of family”…..
Nowadays feelings are nothing, as I heard this , when I was talking to my friend few days before what I found is that…. Her father has been found with a deadly disease called Cancer. And it’s only 6 months time for him. She was talking to me and she not even one time said to me that she loves her father, but she was constantly emphasizing that how will she manage the home, or how will her and her little brother education will go…
Might be the reason that age was trying to be hard to me or else she does not love her father or whatever… But than I realised one thing that we all are dependent on one other and those basic needs are the reasons that why we make relations. Marriage is also the same as in doing so one persons all demands of life are met he / she gets a partner whome they can share all the happiness and pains together and also to grow their next generation…..
This is all what I was thinking from last 1 hour I thought of it to share with you all…. Do give your views and comments… That what I think is right or partially right… And give your opinions and perspective…..
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Time passes , we all come back to our home from all the parts of the world.. It’s a beautiful present of festivals that bound us to our roots.It makes us realise that life is a fun. Take a break from your busy schedule and give some time to your family and relatives. It’s a beautiful chakra that works each year after year and it also moves around.
I’m our hindu culture we have almost every day with a new function but why do we focus more on these two festivals holi and Diwali.. Have you ever thought of this. There is a logical reason behind it why do we have these two festivals as a major. India is a land of agriculture. Our ancestors do farming at a large scale or we can say that our primary occupation is farming.but today the more and more industrilisation took place that leads to the shift of people away from farming. There are many other reason like.
No security-As by floods and natural phenomena or other disasters all the crops might get lost that leads to the condition of poverty. Which makes people shift away from this.
As this time in India the climatic conditions are favourable and the Rahi crops are being harvested. And kharif crops are being sown. So all the people during older times used to celebrate this time with their family members. This these two festival has its own importance.
Thus in order to preserve our old traditions and values we should celebrate the Holi along with our family and also we should forget all the old anger and other issues that are within our innerselves with others and we should learn to love and respect.. This is the lesson that the festivals teach us. The Holi is a symbolism that we should make our life full of colours and spread happiness..
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Yeah, I’m feeling very excited to share with you all, that finally I Got ‘1000’ likes on my blog,. Lifearchitecture LiFE+ArcHitecture it’s a great feeling for me personally… Thankyou all my dear friends, Sir , Mam and all… This is only because all of you that I’m able to keep this as my skill and also get the support of all great people who acts as a family for me… I feel . During my tough time I used this as a medium to keep myself busy and now It became a hobby for me to write my views and ideas .. WordPress helped me a lot in giving a platform and all the audience whom I can connect at any time.. It gives me a greater perspective and also helped me a lot to think differently on problems..
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This climber is special as it I brought it from lucknow last year just before the Corona pandemic. This month 16th of March.. 2020 … The whole corona is quiet easy with my garden… They make my life easily and also adds peace to my mental health.. It is very good to see the trees that we plant and than they bless us with lot blessings like.. Love, care and peace of mind… It’s my hobby… All of us should make a small space in our house and do gardening.. It is very good for a life.. And brings life style.. ❤..
The name is parda bel.. In hindi origin.. And it requires less water and grows at a very fast speed.. It is an Famous bel which is used in the gardens and it adds beauty to the Architectural space. It is very good to see such. Plants…
In what sense the life is good ..? When we give our best to this world and also do our best at personal level..? Why sometimes we forget our deepest desires.? Why we chose the path in just a rush to live a life ..?Is it the meaning of our life which Bhagvaan (God )gave us ..?
This post is for all those who try to excel in all the fields of life. Its a big task and to be efficient and to do all the things.To conquer a lot in our lifes, one has to create a good balance between the main task( means the main work which gives us food or feed our children )and on his side skills( hobbies or else).To follow a passion is easy to say, because in order to live a life in a more secured way special experience and knowledge is required.
When we are born to a middle class family , it’s the duty for our parents to keep us on the right track and to make us more focussed towards studies .But in order to let our passion take breath till our death, we have to make a balance between the both , in other words we need to think differently.
Let me explain why the tiltle is so catchy and how does the idea came in my mind ,what were the things that keeps the many youngsters to kill there passions ..!!
First what it gives to me and what does it took from us —
On reaching to the point, what I observed is that chosing both the things and hustling in between the two. is not a cup of tea . because our mind is not multifunctional. To reach heights we need to focus on one thing at a time . Giving mind extra pressure to excel in both of our fields is not a worthy game. It keeps us away from both, but to keep a balance is necessary .
What does my hobby of rapping gave me ..? Why I’m different from croud and Why does I have my own ideas and perspective towards all things..?these are the basic things which side passion gave to me –
- gave me Identity
- gave me happiness
- increases creativity
- gave me perspective
- make me more connected to people
- prevents boredom
- *and the pleasure of recieving love from all those people who love my performances whenever I kept my leg on stage *
But trying to keep legs on the two boats is difficult , All it required patience and dedication. But more over, it brings joy that is much more than money or any other things in this world .The feeling of fullfillment gave inner peace .
As to born in a mediocre family we need to have a secured future therefore our parents usually scold us , they are-
‘hamaare baap hain von ‘( famous saying in countries where hindi is used meaning that ‘he is our father’ generally used to jear people)
they know much more about ourselves and also of this world .They have more experience than what we think we have .They had already passed through all the ages which we are passing now . And most important they are the only one who truely want good for us. We can trust only on our parents in this world blindly. (till now what I found in my life).That’s may be the reason that they scold many of us for following our passions. But to some extent they are true in all sense .
I found many singers who are against there parents of sometimes they even they try to abuse there parents for that. Its not fair, may be the mindset of such cheap artist is just bullshit.This is wrong and I fekt very sad for this atlast they gave you birth we should respect amd accept them for whatever they had done to us.
Being mediocre is good , many great men told us that before.Because when we are mediocre in any field we come to learn from both the top and bottom .This is place where we see the toppers also we see the people who are below us . This makes us more aware what actually the conditions and cases are..? We are able to observe the things in three ways .It just acts as the third mind as listed in the book “Think and Grow rich “by Napoleon Hill
Many times, we try to copy the toppers in case of studies, but what we get in hand is dissapointment . It only makes us feel guilty for either not getting good marks or not getting in the toppers list.It also sometimes makes us feel inferior to those who are above us.
to the second face of the coin what I found that –
I’m far better than them ,the feeling of not holding the first position gets neutralised by the rewards that I recieve whenever I go to stage. I have a inner feeling of accompishment that atleast what they are doing is meant for them and what is meant for me is what I m doing.This also is important because –
“when every body becomes extraordinary than no one is actually estraordinary”
as mentioned in the book ‘The subtle art of not giving a F*ck’ by ‘Mark Manson ‘
And in this way I am always good in my eyes, and they are good- ‘kitaabi kidaas‘.Also ,what I found that what teacher told us (talking about the studies ) in any class we rarely remember them, but what we can easily remember is our past performances or whenever we had done something much more than studies .Or win any competetion for example.
We feel connected to our innerselves when we remember of the things that gave us happiness at one time like -performing on stage or winning a race , or winning any competetion ,what I think is even participation is also far better than being the ‘ kitaabi keeda’. And sitting like a dumb in the class seeing the faces of others and just sitting only…..
I’m not against those students or studies.Eduation is must and it should be our priority in all aspects of our life. The education only makes a person accepted by the community.It teaches a indivdual how to live a life in a more ethical and cultural way. This is the same thing that what our religious teachings teach us. Only because of good education we are able to change the world or to bring a change in this world .
Thus coming to the end of this post I would llike to summarise by saying that we have to keep our studies a priority but also we should not kill our passions or hobbies for the same . As they are our Identity and they gave us the meaning to our existence much more than that what studies give . Also the rewards that we achieve from the people whom we present our skills is much more valuable than any other thing in this world .it can’t be purchased from the money .Further more it adds value to our life …. 🙂
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India is a large country with rich culture and traditions.With one of the finest example of artwork of Mughal Architecture-” TAJ MAHAL” .Built on the bond of love .It captures visitors from all over the world.It gave the country its identity on the map of world occupying the place in one of seven wonders of the World.Yet there are many truths which are hidden which needs to be unfolded.
To through some light, let me make you aware layer by layer.As on the one layer we see a lot of population who are getting modern each day.They get the best outfits for their outgoings. By wearing the fake mask, they keep their social accounts and photos to a large number of filters….
While going to the ground reports, we find that people when asked about their questions on how their homes be like and whom they like to hire…? their answers be like
…. I will get it on internet as there are much available there …….
and also some be like
... ummm…..the house we are living on rent, we will get our house on the same plans…
I can’t understand why..?
Let me give you a example to understand more clearly ,
“If you are a ‘LOIN’ and you are said to wear the outfit of ‘DONKEY.’..Will u wear it..?”
“If you are a boy and someone offers you a set of skirt and bikney…Will ypu accept it ..?”
The same case arises on our home tooo…. As we can’t live our life on the others identity similarly we can’t live in the other’s house..your house is your’s ,it is fit for your’s personality…We all have our own identity which is represented by our outfits…
Why their mindset are set so… ? either they don’t read books or they are much more stick to the serials like saas -bahu and so which is degrading the minds of people slowly and slowly.
Also ,this might be the reason that only a little population are reaching to the designers in our country .I think that there is a yet a large more distance to travel for our country to get the full freedom from this mindset.
Some might have a large questions in their minds that Architects are too expensive to hire ..!! Yes this is true we are expensive.But they don’t see that they are not spending but they are investing for their ownself in all aspects-MONEY , HEALTH , LIFESTYLE
- MONEY as you save a lot in energy efficiency of building, a lot on faulty construction and also a building which is made well designed functionally,they can be sold on a good prices than any average building
- HEALTH as you are going to build a healthy habits and this bring psychological and a physical well being too, as written by Napoleon Hill in his book’THINK AND GROW RICH’
- LIFESTYLE you will easily achieve
So there is a need to clear it from ground.There should be more awareness programmes among people.They should be taught about its importance .Also, not only for Architecture but for all fields there should be courses for students, so that they can explore and find fields of their interest for their future and for this country .As the Taj Mahal is holding the identity, in same way our people should also have their IDENTITY.
This is the era of social world. We all developed a habit of wearing two masks on our face.We have lost our real identity .The culture of cinemas has also changed our way of thinking and living and also gave rise to a term so called “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS”
As we are now connected to the whole world on our finger tips but day by day human beings are distancing themselves from their own identity.May be they have lost their meaning of Life. As the distance from on inner self widens,they started to search happiness in their partners.Thus the seeds for the breakups are sown.
Moreover the cinemas and serials has changed the whole definition of LOVE .They have the power to manipulate the young minds .As the builders of society ,they loose their peak time of life and indulge in such activities .Finding so called their” SOLUMATES” becomes their primary Goals.
So as a result majority of youth get in this vicious cycle .Thus their is a need to break this cycle so that these young men got a better Relationships with themselves first.And with this their life goals can be achieved.They could give their whole potential to this world .Also relationships with opposite sex had caused many youth to indulde in drinking and addictions.Also breakups leads to anxiety and many mental issues also causes suicide sometimes!!