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Why.. DeSigN..??

Why do we need DeSiGn ..? what is Design ..? How it evolved ..? And purpose of design..?

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Whenever we listen to this world these are the questions that might come in our head . The Idea is much more simple as -design only means ‘Solving problems’. Over time the designs have been evolved are accepted as the way to solve problems in a much better and possible way.

Lets take an example of the daily used life , We all have used safety pins once in a time. This is the best design and fits in its functional aspect too ..and fulfils all the needs of the user and had followed the principle of MINIMILISM in all the aspect . According to me Walter Hunt(designer of safety pins) is one of the best designers of the times. As we see today his examples are accepted and are used since 1849 till now.

Similarly, coming to the field of architecture the houses that are first made are based according to the ideology ,that they solve the general problems of the human needs ie-safety and security. When we see all regions in the world, each and every country and island each state and each village has their own designs and are somewhat unique in their aspect and are functionally acceptable.

Going through in detail one by one

IGLOO are the examples which is fit for the colder regions,solve the problem of cold breeze, and also made from the Ice itself. The structure is also the best and it distributes the load according to surface active structure system .Moreover is accepted by people living there.

In areas of Gujrat in India ,we see Pol Houses, they are designed which serves as the protection from hot airs by providing a buffer zone between the earth and the house and also provides a ventillation which gives human comfort.

In Villages we generally see homes made up of the traditional Bamboo and straws which serves as the best for those people and are economical and they are vernacular .Also they ae also according to the cultural beliefs.

In this way the designs are born and they are evolved over time for the best functional requirements. All materialistic things are designed according to the needs. We see from small pen to the large Aeroplane all are made in order to solve the problems of our needs .

Lets talk about the Good and Bad Design

As telling the truth there is no such term like a Good Design or a Bad Design. All designs are good in their own terms. The ground on which it is seen is the criteria for judging any designs. Moreover ,As we all have heard the ideal gas in our schools in chemistry But in reality it does not exist at all . All are just assumed and in order to complete any reaction we just assume that the conditions are IDEAL .Similarly there is no Good Design , Its all the Game of mind and Designers which make a design good for people. Just designs are in the same way they just evolve over time and are made more functional and are guided by achieving all the problems and an approach to solve it.

This is also the foundation for the designers all over the world .This creates competetion among all of them. To strive for best .And in competetions all the participants are well informed and are experienced.They only play a hit and trial game .Which needs dedication and hardwork. Moreover luck also plays a major role.

Like the FATHER OF MODERN ARCHITECTURE-Louis S.Sullivan .We all have heard the term ‘FORM FOLLOWS FUNCTION‘ which is coined by him only. He was just a man who used his weakness and made a new era and had formed the concept of DESIGN all over the world. He was a not so good in ornamenting a building (means decorating a building) Thus he was the most wise men he worked on his weakness and later his IDEA changed the whole world what we see today…Almost all designrs across the world follow him, from a small poster design to all the buildings.

He was a perfect designer according to me as he was a designer of his own life first and later he gave inspiration to all world for the Idea of Modernism..!! This is what the real meaning of design ,which should be adopted by all people and humanity all over the world..

So to conclude this we need to understand and change the philosophy of design which is more concept based and had shifted the main approach of the designers. As somewhere in the game of marketing and money Designers all over the world are becoming deoendent on concept based design. Which needed to be changed…!!!

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‘Quality or Quantity’-masters do this way…!!

This post is my own observation and my own views towards the masters who served the world in their own ways. What I found and observed that there are many ways by which one can reach the top. This post is basically revolved around the idea of the services. The term” success here- means that how you gave your services to this world and how public enjoys your services.

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By keeping my ideas and approach right I would try my best to clear this concept. Many masters who are well known in their fields might have understood this concept. But to reach at the master level ,the concept which leads to the success is common in all. The methods or strategies might be different.

Its just like-

“solving a trignometric equations of tenth class –

To prove LHS and RHS equal one can do the parts separately or can take the one side and make it equal to the other side.

by -Utkarsh Mishra

It depends on the mathematician which method he proceeds .Both the methods are correct. Same is in this case. Let me explain better.

Similarly to achieve the success at the public level and to gain mastery in a particular field. The masters adopt the method which suits to them .

The two ways by which one can have a bulk of fame money and recognition.

  • QUALITY
  • QUANTITY

Third is the most advanced and effective method which I found and analysed. I will put more empahsis on the third and will elaborate the methodology and strategies envolved in this method. I’m sure you will realise and understand the importance of the third one. I will give you the examples and ideas too.Please go through the end of the post.

QUALITY-This forms the basic of all success .But Alone Quality does not makes you a successful.In some cases its risky to give your 100% in this because of the boundations of time and other demands.Yet Quality the one of the keyfactors of achieving the success but its not alone that gives too.

  • But sometimes doing a good quality work does not only makes us successful in the creative fields where the success means the ‘peice of work which is loved by the audience’.
  • The Artist or the person who do the work does not knows which work would reach the larger audience or which song reaches the billion views on youtube or which project got the more recognition. Its too risky and to depend only on your quality work in this small life is like making the big digs for your ownself. You will get everything but it might consume your whole life. (its just my opinion don’t take it as a benchmark)
  • Second thing comes is also the luck factor but mostly the luck is the output of our thaughts and actions .So to be on the safe side qwe should maintain our quality weather we are in school ,college ,working as a Employee or whatever may be.As Quality is one of the keyfactor.

QUANTITY-Its also a strategy used by all and it builds our confidence and also adds to our portfolio a another weightage.

Doing a quantity of work allows us to open many gates for success.But doing only Quantity does not means that we give our services unriped or of low quality. It’s also found that doing a quantity of work within the certain time frame increases our productivity and also makes us more efficient .Our creativity boost and flourishes.It also trains our mind towards more problem solving abilities. But let me make more clear that how the quantity is not only tat makes us masters.

Its just like having a lot of crackers in Diwali and none of the crackers has a good sound and lightening . Our Diwali might get Dimmed .

But having some good crackers sound and crackling effect makes a long lasting impressions in our memories. We might remember it till next Diwali.. 🙂

by-UTKARSH MISHRA

Now coming to end of my article and also in order to give the fine strategies let me discuss the THIRD one which I Gave the Name –‘QUATITY’

As the name suggest it says all that its the product of both quantity and quality .

"Quality+Quantity= QUATITY"

To become the master we need understand how our mind works and how to work .This path is hard yet the safest. One needs to stick and also dedicated towards the work .As to achieve success there is no shortcut and to be successfull it takes a lot time and efforts. Yet, if we follow this method I assure that we can be successfull. Our success than will have some meaning and carries weightage. It will not vanish easily and no one can make you fall ,only if you are honest towards the work.

Let me share a example so that you can easily understand and relate my work.

Let me give you the three S’s-

  • Saves time
  • Safest side
  • Success is assured.

Taking examples of Rabindra Nath Tagore ,Eminem ,Jaha Hadid-these are the masters who are till date remembered and will be remembered for all the ages .First one is the poet(First Indian who recieved the Noble Prize and also who wrote National Anthem for two nation -INDIA AND BANGLADESH , second is a Rapper(known as Rap God ) ,third is a Female Architect (she is remembered for her Iconic works in the field of Architecture)

Their method of working is much more and they are all masters in their fields.The basic factor that seperates them among the croud is that their work is more advanced.They all are dedicated towards their work. They also do a QUANTITY of work along with QUALITY forms the basis of their works. Rabindra Nath Tagore started writing from the very young age and keeps on polishing his skills. Which Ultimately improves his quality. Eminem Releases his album but only of the songs got so much publicity and recognition. Jaha Hadid did the same .

There should be a balance between the quantity and quality. The facts is to keep working both on quantity and quality. One of your work would be a stardom. This converts a Man to a Master.

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An Architect and a Civil Engineer

“Civil engineers acts like Words but Architects play the role of the poets”

by -Utkarsh Mishra
so to have a beautiful poem ,words have to be arranged meaningfully and logically binded with the chain of creativity...

The most common problem people face nowadays is that they don’t understand who are Civil Engineers and who are Architects ..? May be the reason that they are less aware or our country is still lagging behind in the field of Architecture .Many people get confused between the two. Its like a curse for any person who belongs to a specific field and people call him or her by the other proffession ,its more like a heartbreak.

While on one hand Architecture is totally depend on feelings and philosophical concept, while The Civil Engineering is fully based on the structural and safety of human beings. Both are required and are equally important for the human beings. Because human beings need the both physical and emotional balance to live a live beautifully and meaningfully

As I’m an Architect ,therefore I will try to make your mind clear about what Civil Engineer’s don’t do. In this way you can easily understand the relationship and the wide difference between the two.

1-Architects are masters for making plans. They do the same thing for five years of their college life and the whole life.(plans means the architecture drawing floor plans and all.

2-We know about the physchology of human behavior and work in that way. We play with the spaces by adding the feelings. As JAHA HADID mam said that ‘the buildings rose our senses and they enhance our feelings’ .At some places we feel excited and enthusiastic but at some places we feel bored and sad. All is the play of the magic of Architecture and feelings.

3- An Architect guides all the functional aspects of abuilding and makes a person to move on a desired path.One of the major reasons why some malls and monuments attract the visitors again and again.It’s the magic of the Architecture.In this way the people got some time to live with themselves and they find peace from their busy lives.

4-‘An Architecture is a form of art and Not every body is an Artist’ .An Architect adds more value to our lives by adding the more and more meaning and a type of lifestyle. as it is said –

‘We shape buildings and than buildings shapes us’

5- Architecture is a very broad field and a lot of scope .But one must have that much of courage to withstand all the obstacles and live a very busy life. Many think that drawing the lines on a peice of paper is a very easy task. Yes it is but to give a meaningful drawings their is a lot of thaught process that undergoes .We have to do a lot of casestudies site visits and all the work .Its more like a proffession of a doctor.

I will say that -‘Doctors are the second face of God but an Architect enlightens us like God by the atmosphere.’

By -Utkarsh Mishra

6-” An art is an imagination and imagination has no limits so the Architecture” .But when it comes to the Civil Engineering there is a set of rules As Engineering is based on the concepts of Physics and there are the rules and laws which needs to be followed .

7-When seen on the wide scale its only because of the Architecture that our cultures and traditions are being preserved As I heard somewhere that “to destroy the culture of any country destroy all its Art and Architecture” .So now you can understand that how we are preserving our culture and also to make our new generation we conserve for future.Let me explain about this let me give you a example–>

As all the Muslims Go for Hajj to Madinah once in their lifetime and at a small scale they go to Masjids,Similarly All Hindu Go to the old Ghats and Temples . In future they would prefer to go to Ayodhya (Ram Janm Bhoomi where the RAM [Hindu God]Temple is now begin to construct under the Yogi's Raj) By the way- 'Bhagvaan ek roop anek'(God is one but the faces are different).But than also because of religious beliefs and culture Architecture preserves all. Our future generations will only see what we built today they will understand the meaning and their past only by these Architectural works.

Well that’s enough that now you are able to make a difference between the two, but lets give a focus on the Civil Engineers also they are masters in the structural framework and all about the safety of the persons living inside any structure .Both Architects and Civil Engineers are equally important for any good project .We both work silmultaneously on a projects and it requires a lot of team work and efforts to set a masterpeice for the future that is built in present .We are the two faces of a coin.

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Ask for Help.. it truely helps….

Asking for help is one of the best strategy used by the wise men .Seeking advice and asking for help, it really helps. This life is short and we have a little time to achieve goals’. One has to adopt the habit of asking help in this competetive world. This idea would be more clear, when you will stick to my words till the end of this blog.

As according to time, we adapt ourselves according to our enviornment .(rule of the science ‘Survival of the Fittest‘) .The one who is more adaptive and advanced survives. Similarly we have to modify ourselves according to time and conditions. It is well said that-

jamaane k saath chalna chahiye…”

So ,according to above concept and the theme if this post-

hum akele hi sab kr lenge”

…. fails .This concept is good for a short span or small victory but to achieve more its not worthy to do all things alone.

To achieve the public victory( refer to book- The 7 Habits of Effective people by Coveys Stephan)you have to rely on others for your need. This is more practical concept and proved too…(I am not encouraging to be selfish, be clear to what I say and find the boundry of my words).This depends on the law of ‘GIVE AND TAKE‘. If you will help others than only others will help you .Simple,follow this rule and keep moving on.

The whole world is now flying on the wings of modernisation and technology. We have abundance of money and all the materialistic things that we gather for our comfort. But what we lack is the time -‘God father of everything on this planet’. We have so little of this for our ownself.

Not going to deep and trying to be specific and focussed .Let me explain the gifts when we ask for help.

1-TIME–Time is the one of the best asset that we have .Its profit depends on how we invest it…?In every proffessional field he proffessionals have a good workload

TIME<<WORK

Thus, to enhance our efficiency and to and to do a large work within a given time frame. It does not shows that we are weak but it gives them the importance that they are being recognised and they are capable of doing something for others.

2-RELATIONSHIPS- In all this process we get engaged with others. And its natural when we ask for help than there is some type of communication .No matter what it be but it builds the relationship with the other person. It gives you two profits

  • your work is being completed
  • you get one more friend in your life

3-VISION-whenever we ask for help than there are two probabilities

  • the other will help
  • or not help

When they select the first than the two minds come into play and and the work would be far better and we will get a broad vision for ourself.

(If they help than they will surely give there best services to you,if they don’t than don’t mind, might be they don’t know how to do the work.? or they might facing there own work or problems. Better ask other and save your time.)

4- PERSPECTIVE -Manytimes

‘ our 6 is 9 for others ‘

What we see might be different for the other. At the same time we both are correct in our own ways. Here we get one mire gift from asking for help. As this develops our perspective for a long term. Sometimes the situations are like that we think we are doing right but reality is that we are

‘kuyein ka medhak’

(means the ‘ frog of the well’ or ‘the world is limited only to that small well in which the frog lives’)

thus our all vivek( from hindi meaning wisdom or mind) got bhrashta( from hindi meaning destroyed or lost) ,we put ourselves to problems . thus when we ask for help ,we get possibilities of correcting ourselves .A step towards success.

5- BOOST MENTAL HEALTH -This we all relate more clearly .Many a times we got stuck in our work but somehow we are not able to do it or complete it. We got frustated so easily and our efficiency comes down. In a parallel world we are sowing the seeds of anxiety ,pressure, tension and stress in our mind. Biggest enemy for all success.

For a long term it leads to Craving( a state of unbalance between the mind and body)according to Buddhist and Sadhus( refer to book -The Attention revolution- Unlocking the Power of the Focussed Mind by B.ALAN WALACE).The strategy is simple .The life is simple. So ask for help…. you will not become small or weak but you will become more wise and effecient for a along term . No need to hesitate ,ask it from anyone who is near you.

Here also we get two profits

  • work is done
  • reduced stress and worry
  • money is saved as there is no need to give money to the doctors in future

Yet there are many more benefits as asking for help also cultivate the communication skills and your personality is developed. You will achieve success in both of your personal as well as proffessional life . And soon you will work more efficiently in all the areas of your life.

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Failed ….Modern Architecture

MINIMALISM…LESS IS MORE…..FORM FOLLOWS FUNCTION…..INNOVATIONS ……MODERN TECHNIQUES……..

If you are associated with architecture than you must be familier with these phrases sometimes or even more often.The whole World is now covered with the so called ‘modern architecture‘. The innovative techniques advancements are done on the daily basis in the field of architecture.

But according to me the true meaning of Architecture lies in the way how we follow our own cultures and traditions.It does not depend on what we perform but how we perform our daily activities. The way how one lives their life and performs their activities by keeping their values and traditions as a North Pole.

Modern Architecture fits in all aspect of a good and civilised society but it cuts the people from their roots.(roots here means of one’s own identity , their culture ,tradition and their link to ancesters)The architecture moulds the human being.They live according to the way their spaces are organised and planned which ultimately decides what they do and how they do…?

It destroyed the real identity of the region and scripted the life of people in the same format.This is boring and has negative impacts for the long term.As architecture is all about the life and its relation with the human being.How one celebrates the built form.?Its a whole journey which includes the study of history and the adaptations along with time to live a more easy and efficient lifestyle.But the –

traditions and culture should always be the guiding light for the Architects

all over the world.More we focus on our roots more we would be able to relate and connect to our ancestors.Also it would help us in getting the real meaning and purpose of life.

I’m not against the modern architecture besides I do like the principles and philosophy of it.But in the most important aspect like the preservation of identity it failed .This is the reason why we see the whole world is wearing the same mask of Glass, Steel and Concrete.We can’t relate any country by just seeing its building individually.

For example when we talk about the Greek and Roman than an image would flash in our minds of the orders of their columns like Doric ,Ionic and Corinthian. Similarly then we talk about any country the image got created in our minds.As a result of this the countries lost their uniqueness.

The Falling Water

By going through the one of the finest architect from the world and his master piece THE FALLING WATER( one of the heritage sites of the world being preserved since 1957) designed by Frank Lolyd Wright.The building opposes the modern architecture in the use of materials .This building is a retreat house itself .By the use of rocks and wood it opposes a modern architecture in a constructive way.

Now a days many architects lost their taste of using the natural materials or they don’t have developed it. The’ truth is that the great architects have made the best use of local materials and also they tried to find the best outfit for their projects ‘(means the materials for their projects).Which ultimately became their identity and their signature styles.

Thus there is a need to change the way we build. In order to preserve the identity and uniqueness of the people.If not taken care than the whole world will look similar.Their would be no distinction between the geographical areas on the basis of their traditions culture and values,which I personally think is important for the coming generations.

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Beyond Architecture-meaning and pleasure

Life is uncertain’.’Nothing is permanent’ these are some universal truth.Nothing in this world is permanent ,except the one who is living with his/her innerself or called ‘I'(according to human values).Many people come and go,yet the real happiness and pleasure is achieved when man (here refers to the human being) comes to understand his inner world.The joy is eternal and will remain with you till your last breath.The Harmony with this only helps you to get the ‘ras‘(meaning the value or taste) of life.

Goals are important for life.They have to be set and achieved, as they do everything.They guide us and keep us focussed and motivated .Growth is the best friend of happiness , they are like laila majnu ( a embodiment of love )many believed that Relationships,money ,fame, recognition bring the tremendious joy but it only the mragtrishna ‘( meaning mirage).

Rabindranath Tagore the first Indian to hold a noble prize for Literature who is the writer of national anthems for two countries India and Bangladesh , his poem ‘Akela Chalo‘ ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=691W-JSAdUI )is the best example of it.A source of guide and inspiration for many people .(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=asyCgI716Mk)you may watch his life than you will understand this better.

If someone had recently been through the Ups and Downs of life than one will understand me in more depth.Also,many spiritual people says that ups and down in life make us to understand ourseleves better.They guide us and give us the better meaning of our life and values.

The mantra is simple – ‘Maturity is achieved only after having a taste of loss . than only you will come to understand the meaning of life and purpose.The pleasure comes in abundance after it.’

I had gone through the the biographies of great men and I came to know that the amount of sufferings ‘Bhagvaan’ (Hindu god) gave us, the same amount of happiness is also along with it.He faced many losses in his life but he is more willing to live in present . And the result is that, now he is remembered for his work in the field of literature all along the world.

This life is very beautiful unless the day you understand the ,meaning of life.You will neither regret about the past nor you will worry about the future .The more you live in present .Its just the play of life-everything tiny to large ,materialistic to realistic, the people happiness, money,sufferings,victory and fall are make us tough enough to face the life.

A man who is ‘Alone’ ,his critical imagination plays best.(read Napolean Hills ‘think and grow rich for better understanding’).All the artist ,poets ,people,who reached to a large audience are all ‘messengers of God’.As they guide us to see the life from different perspective .

As written in Gita,( a spiritual book of Hinduism), teaches us that Bhagvan are among our innerselves. This is the reason why I said that the artist are messengers of Bhagvaan. They connect us to the our soul.

Also to sum up,’Life is Uncertain’ and ‘Nothing is Permanent’ , people got attracted to you when you are doing good in your life .’Some people ‘make us or they make us fall‘.The secret lies in the way how we manage or how we face such obstacles . The main content is to be ‘Principle centered ‘concept,its the best for everyone.It makes us more directed towards ourselves and helps us to remain motivated and work on our principles.

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A guide to Architects… “MARS” OR “SLUMS”

We are going to have settlement on‘Mars’. A large area of our Earth is occupied by the humans.We are digging forests,and touching the sky.Urbanisation , Infrastructure and modernisation has spreaded their wings all around.

One of the major reason may be the population but I do think that the greed of human had contributed to this a lot. Thus it created a conflict between human and animals, moreover it created an imbalance at a global scale, As this year ,we saw an example of ‘Tiddi’ (https://www.livehindustan.com/tags/tiddi-attack )attacks in the some parts of Pakistan as well as in and western India.It destroyed the a large amount of crops as a result .

In the Country like India, where there a large number of people are below poverty line, they even don’t have roofs to keep their head beneath. Yes, I’m talking about the people in slums.. irony is here...

Musk is going to have a Human settlement on Mars, yet we are still lagging here.

I think that growing the quantity does not means when it comes to quality. Thus, If we want a country to reach heights. Than we must improve the quality of all men. As said by the Dr.B.R Ambedkar https://shodhganga.inflibnet.ac.in/bitstream/10603/149691/8/08_chapter_03.pdf we keep on working towards in this aspect than we can build a more developed and planned areas for them to have a Good and Effective life.They also can act as an Asset for any Country’s growth ,if guided properly.

Moreover ,if we (Architects) focus on the upliftment of life of such people, than we can achieve a lot in the humanity. As we are the God of settlements,than we can do a small share in this too…by having the more planned and well setteld areas for them so that they can also do their share in the groth of our country.

Growth is important as it’s a symbolism of life. Similarly to have a more balanced life on this earth. We need to adopt more and more Economical and Efficient methodoly for the buildings .Their is a more need to create more adaptible and flexible Architecture but without harming the nature at it only leads the humanity to problems. Also more vernacular and substainable Architecture should be adopted. Without harming the harmony of this ecosystem…!

PLEASE DO GIVE YOUR VIEWS AND IMPROVEMENTS FOR THE BETTERMENT OF THIS WORLD

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Why to hire an Architect..?

After Civillisation, the whole world has changed.The people got more civillised ,they started to accumulate their comfort .They give rise to beautiful art of piece “home”.As there is limited land resource on earth and the population is increasing rapidly. Thus,there is a need for the one who by his creativity finds the best solution for any problem.

Architects have the ability to transform the life on this planet.By the vast knowledge of human psychology their cultures and traditions they convert the place into best 3D space for living.They understand the history and plan for future and makes the best out of it.

As for the covid19 like emergency all over the world their is a more need for the flexible buildings and adaptive techniques https://www.dezeen.com/2020/04/20/daily-coronavirus-architecture-design-briefing-20-april/ As seen in this article their is a more need for such buildings .

Moreover on a personal scale ,it saves a large amount of money when you hire an proffessional for your home..it saves a lot during the construction as well as in future energy requirements for your energy demands.An architect has an large amount of knowledge and experience about the site and also the climatic conditions air movement and alll.

“the space you spend time in transform your personality”

by Utkarsh Mishra

Its well said as the fortunes are build by habits and these habits are guided by the set of regular activities. These activities are decided by the space in which you are living .So why to give up on it…? why to loose your fortunes ..?

They give the best services for your demands ,by spending a large time in solving your problems .Just as a mother they feed clients with all the strategies ,construction techniques,ideas materials and economical ways for your buildings,homes,shops and any other form to be built.

Moreover they create the best use of land by making it more spacious as well as also to convert it into more multi functional . Thus future is in the hands of yours, weather u make a house on your own old knowledge or to make it more substainable , ecofriendly and energy efficient .Moreover it saves your large sum of money and also transforms your life..!!!

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Modern Relationships

This is the era of social world. We all developed a habit of wearing two masks on our face.We have lost our real identity .The culture of cinemas has also changed our way of thinking and living and also gave rise to a term so called “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS”

As we are now connected to the whole world on our finger tips but day by day human beings are distancing themselves from their own identity.May be they have lost their meaning of Life. As the distance from on inner self widens,they started to search happiness in their partners.Thus the seeds for the breakups are sown.

Moreover the cinemas and serials has changed the whole definition of LOVE .They have the power to manipulate the young minds .As the builders of society ,they loose their peak time of life and indulge in such activities .Finding so called their” SOLUMATES” becomes their primary Goals.

So as a result majority of youth get in this vicious cycle .Thus their is a need to break this cycle so that these young men got a better Relationships with themselves first.And with this their life goals can be achieved.They could give their whole potential to this world .Also relationships with opposite sex had caused many youth to indulde in drinking and addictions.Also breakups leads to anxiety and many mental issues also causes suicide sometimes!!