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Every job looks easy when you are not doing it because the challenges faced by someone in arena are often invisible to those in the croud… – Immelt

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Happiness is as defined – quality friendships, being part of something bigger than ourselves, and spending quality time unstructured time with our family…. Psychology of money… The more control we have in our lives over our time the more happy we are… It’s partially dependent on the money we have or status we have…

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Happiness ,as it’s said, is just results minus expectations..

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होली है

Time passes , we all come back to our home from all the parts of the world.. It’s a beautiful present of festivals that bound us to our roots.It makes us realise that life is a fun. Take a break from your busy schedule and give some time to your family and relatives. It’s a beautiful chakra that works each year after year and it also moves around.

I’m our hindu culture we have almost every day with a new function but why do we focus more on these two festivals holi and Diwali.. Have you ever thought of this. There is a logical reason behind it why do we have these two festivals as a major. India is a land of agriculture. Our ancestors do farming at a large scale or we can say that our primary occupation is farming.but today the more and more industrilisation took place that leads to the shift of people away from farming. There are many other reason like.

No security-As by floods and natural phenomena or other disasters all the crops might get lost that leads to the condition of poverty. Which makes people shift away from this.

As this time in India the climatic conditions are favourable and the Rahi crops are being harvested. And kharif crops are being sown. So all the people during older times used to celebrate this time with their family members. This these two festival has its own importance.

Thus in order to preserve our old traditions and values we should celebrate the Holi along with our family and also we should forget all the old anger and other issues that are within our innerselves with others and we should learn to love and respect.. This is the lesson that the festivals teach us. The Holi is a symbolism that we should make our life full of colours and spread happiness..

Thankyou for giving your precious time and do share your thoughts and beautiful experiences of Holi. 😅

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That’s what nature teach us. ❤….

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Does money has its own future….?

What every human is desiring for….and for what….? As the whole world has been shifting from last few decades and now it’s been an easy access for everyone to have a bulk of knowledge and by that knowledge everybody is trying to make money by money..

So what might be the future.. What type of lifestyle would it be..? For what does a man will hope for and how to achieve this. ..?

We all have a desire for money and fame. But does having desire to have money and to produce same changes any person. Yeah ,till some extent it’s true that by money we can have a lifestyle but if every body has a lifestyle than would it not be so boring.! Everyone has the bulk of money.. Than do this thing works..? Everybody would be having the same lifestyle. Isn’t it boring or too common to be special..? What thing than matter for everyone.. Is it money or other pleasures of the world..?

From my perspective in future I think that money has no worth. And a simple life would become the new standard of livin. Sitting with wife and family at home and having a general dinner would the luxuries.. People will come back to the books and old cultures too.. The distance that money is creating by having a big bunglow and a big houses on beaches… Do these people even enjoyed the life of a normal. Humans.. Or just counting money is there supreme purpose.. I think that time will come back when people prefer simple living rather than luxuries. They would give money for having a walk on the horses again. As we have seen life before Henry’s invention.. People would love to sit under the trees.. Beyond such huge concrete buildings… Might be my dream.. Just writing random thaughts which are flowing through my mind…

Thankyou for giving your precious time.. Have a great day…😇

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HAPPY NEW YEAR !!

SO THIS IS THE END OF THE YEAR 2020,SO WE ARE GOING TO ENTER A NEW YEAR WITH NEW ENTHUSIASM , ENERGY , GOALS , DREAMS,AND DESIRES. MAY THIS YEAR FULFILL ALL THE DREAMS OF MY DEAR FRIENDS AND SUPPORTERS WHO APPRECIATED AND HELPED ME A LOT TO WRITE AND EXPRESS MY SELF.

THANKYOU ALL, AND HOPE YOU ALL GET ALL THE THINGS WHICH YOU NEED OR WISH TOO.

A GOOD HEALTH, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AND LIFE FULL OF GOALS ..!!

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As a mediocre I compromise ..!! As an Artist I love compromising

In what sense the life is good ..? When we give our best to this world and also do our best at personal level..? Why sometimes we forget our deepest desires.? Why we chose the path in just a rush to live a life ..?Is it the meaning of our life which Bhagvaan (God )gave us ..?

This post is for all those who try to excel in all the fields of life. Its a big task and to be efficient and to do all the things.To conquer a lot in our lifes, one has to create a good balance between the main task( means the main work which gives us food or feed our children )and on his side skills( hobbies or else).To follow a passion is easy to say, because in order to live a life in a more secured way special experience and knowledge is required.

When we are born to a middle class family , it’s the duty for our parents to keep us on the right track and to make us more focussed towards studies .But in order to let our passion take breath till our death, we have to make a balance between the both , in other words we need to think differently.

Let me explain why the tiltle is so catchy and how does the idea came in my mind ,what were the things that keeps the many youngsters to kill there passions ..!!

First what it gives to me and what does it took from us —

On reaching to the point, what I observed is that chosing both the things and hustling in between the two. is not a cup of tea . because our mind is not multifunctional. To reach heights we need to focus on one thing at a time . Giving mind extra pressure to excel in both of our fields is not a worthy game. It keeps us away from both, but to keep a balance is necessary .

What does my hobby of rapping gave me ..? Why I’m different from croud and Why does I have my own ideas and perspective towards all things..?these are the basic things which side passion gave to me –

  • gave me Identity
  • gave me happiness
  • increases creativity
  • gave me perspective
  • make me more connected to people
  • prevents boredom
  • *and the pleasure of recieving love from all those people who love my performances whenever I kept my leg on stage *

But trying to keep legs on the two boats is difficult , All it required patience and dedication. But more over, it brings joy that is much more than money or any other things in this world .The feeling of fullfillment gave inner peace .

As to born in a mediocre family we need to have a secured future therefore our parents usually scold us , they are-

hamaare baap hain von ‘( famous saying in countries where hindi is used meaning that ‘he is our father’ generally used to jear people)

they know much more about ourselves and also of this world .They have more experience than what we think we have .They had already passed through all the ages which we are passing now . And most important they are the only one who truely want good for us. We can trust only on our parents in this world blindly. (till now what I found in my life).That’s may be the reason that they scold many of us for following our passions. But to some extent they are true in all sense .

I found many singers who are against there parents of sometimes they even they try to abuse there parents for that. Its not fair, may be the mindset of such cheap artist is just bullshit.This is wrong and I fekt very sad for this atlast they gave you birth we should respect amd accept them for whatever they had done to us.

Being mediocre is good , many great men told us that before.Because when we are mediocre in any field we come to learn from both the top and bottom .This is place where we see the toppers also we see the people who are below us . This makes us more aware what actually the conditions and cases are..? We are able to observe the things in three ways .It just acts as the third mind as listed in the book “Think and Grow rich “by Napoleon Hill

Many times, we try to copy the toppers in case of studies, but what we get in hand is dissapointment . It only makes us feel guilty for either not getting good marks or not getting in the toppers list.It also sometimes makes us feel inferior to those who are above us.

to the second face of the coin what I found that –

I’m far better than them ,the feeling of not holding the first position gets neutralised by the rewards that I recieve whenever I go to stage. I have a inner feeling of accompishment that atleast what they are doing is meant for them and what is meant for me is what I m doing.This also is important because –

“when every body becomes extraordinary than no one is actually estraordinary

as mentioned in the book ‘The subtle art of not giving a F*ck’ by ‘Mark Manson ‘

And in this way I am always good in my eyes, and they are good- ‘kitaabi kidaas‘.Also ,what I found that what teacher told us (talking about the studies ) in any class we rarely remember them, but what we can easily remember is our past performances or whenever we had done something much more than studies .Or win any competetion for example.

We feel connected to our innerselves when we remember of the things that gave us happiness at one time like -performing on stage or winning a race , or winning any competetion ,what I think is even participation is also far better than being the ‘ kitaabi keeda’. And sitting like a dumb in the class seeing the faces of others and just sitting only…..

I’m not against those students or studies.Eduation is must and it should be our priority in all aspects of our life. The education only makes a person accepted by the community.It teaches a indivdual how to live a life in a more ethical and cultural way. This is the same thing that what our religious teachings teach us. Only because of good education we are able to change the world or to bring a change in this world .

Thus coming to the end of this post I would llike to summarise by saying that we have to keep our studies a priority but also we should not kill our passions or hobbies for the same . As they are our Identity and they gave us the meaning to our existence much more than that what studies give . Also the rewards that we achieve from the people whom we present our skills is much more valuable than any other thing in this world .it can’t be purchased from the money .Further more it adds value to our life …. 🙂

Thankyou for giving your precipus time and please do give your views and ideas .. Its only because of you all that I’m able to express myself in a better way ..!!

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Modern Relationships

This is the era of social world. We all developed a habit of wearing two masks on our face.We have lost our real identity .The culture of cinemas has also changed our way of thinking and living and also gave rise to a term so called “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS”

As we are now connected to the whole world on our finger tips but day by day human beings are distancing themselves from their own identity.May be they have lost their meaning of Life. As the distance from on inner self widens,they started to search happiness in their partners.Thus the seeds for the breakups are sown.

Moreover the cinemas and serials has changed the whole definition of LOVE .They have the power to manipulate the young minds .As the builders of society ,they loose their peak time of life and indulge in such activities .Finding so called their” SOLUMATES” becomes their primary Goals.

So as a result majority of youth get in this vicious cycle .Thus their is a need to break this cycle so that these young men got a better Relationships with themselves first.And with this their life goals can be achieved.They could give their whole potential to this world .Also relationships with opposite sex had caused many youth to indulde in drinking and addictions.Also breakups leads to anxiety and many mental issues also causes suicide sometimes!!