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Love is risk !!

Someone told me that love is selfless , they were right.

What we give is not guarenteed that we will get in return and we also dont know that weather the person is fully into us or not ..?Strange yeah..

Many times we spend a lot time and energy , and emotional indulgance into someone who is not into us or is not willing to be with us..!! so the result is pain and suffering

But why do people face such traumas ..?

Have u ever think about it or not ..yes .From my own experience I realised that we should keep some boundries and we should know till which level we should get into intimate with our partners both emotionally and physically. As no body knows that what future is to be , yet nothing can be decided but still after going to some level of intimacy , its very hard for one in both to be get back. As being with friends is different and being with someone who is more than friend is different .

The other person should know the boundries to make with the other as all have different level of energies and its all that plays into role .

As in every relation boundries are important .It doesnt matter that u r friend , relative,mother and father or two boys are friend, even when two girls are friends it should be there .If there are no boundries the relationships fails.

As an Architect I know what works I do what is the role of civil engineers .We all have a specific field where we are masters so with respect to that for a better building of functionally and structurally. There should be boundries that should be maintained . Thus It’s important .

When the boundries are not set the works merge and tand traumas start the mutual trust and mutual respect is even lost.Even sometimes the relationships can be even so toxic than the vish (or poison) .That might harm us a lot

It would not kill us ones but keep on killing us regularly .

That would be so hard. Even in brother and sisters and father and sin there are some boundries that should be respected for a better life and long lasting relations.

So just keeping it short, we all should first set our boundries and than move forward As by being in boundries we would be more comfortable safe and even more happy we would enjoy our life to te fullest ..

try it in your life and be happy

have a nice day and keep glowing with a smile . 🙂

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A good player work hard to win a game everyone is playing. A great player creates a game that favours their strength and avoids there weakness.. Atomic habits. 😍

A good player work hard to win a game everyone is playing. A great player creates a game that favours their strength and avoids there weakness.. Atomic habits. 😍
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When you can’t win by being better, you can win by being different.!!! Atomic habits.. 😇

When you can't win by being better, you can win by being different.!!! Atomic habits.. 😇
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Beauty is there in a process of learning a new art, new language, new course, and anything new…. Once learned the amount of enthusiasm goes down.Its truely said in a song.. “Safar khoobasoorat hai manjil se bhi ” from ae dil hai mushkil…. What I felt today is same that feeling. When we learn something the amazement or the excitement makes the whole journey more memorable. When struggling with relationships we usually do efforts but they are truelly the mainly important for that. Because once the marriage got done the excitement levels go down.. Lol just a fact. But when we go and try to propose a girl at that time our passion usually fills us with a great joy. That joy is of more worth than the Girl itself.. It’s true that sometimes or some poets usually catch some reality of life and puts them in a form of an artpeice.This is really appreciable and true… So when you are struggling with a new course or new instrument don’t leave them at half way because after some pains you will reach a state that your initial efforts are more worthy for you.. After attaining a new level you will easily do all the things that other people do without any effort. The last the real beauty you would be happy with doing what you do but you will miss the initial efforts or pain… After reaching to that point you will miss that part of learning.. But once you become a master or partially good you might sometimes get bored. But don’t leave as we should learn till our last breath of life and it’s a symbolism of life. Learning means that we are living being.. As All the spiritual and every book says.. Geeta has mentioned it too…

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Beauty lies in imagination.. 😍😍….. Yes it’s true, we only are responsible for what is beautiful and what is not beautiful for us.. That’s why all have different taste and love is blind. Just like fire is loved by us jn winters but during summer we hate it..Its just our mind that makes thinst beautiful in our imagination….

Beauty lies in imagination.. 😍😍.....
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The general who wins the battle makes many calculations in the temple before the battle is fought.. The Art of War

The general who wins the battle makes many calculations in the temple before the battle is fought.. The Art of War
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Revolution means turning the wheel…. !! Igor Stravinsky..

Revolution means turning the wheel.... !! Igor Stravinsky..
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People truely love themselves, but what they love most of all is to see their taste nad ideas reflected in another person..!! Art of seduction…!!!

People truely love themselves, but what they love most of all is to see their taste nad ideas reflected in another person..!! Art of seduction...!!!
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The greatest seducers those who seduce masses, audience, nations, the world have a way of playing on people’s unconscious, making them react in a way they can neither understand nor create… Art of seduction

The greatest seducers those who seduce masses, audience, nations, the world have a way of playing on people's unconscious, making them react in a way they can neither understand nor create... Art of seduction
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Most people believe themselves to be inwardly greater than they outwardly appear to the world…. Could be artist, thinkers, leaders, spiritualfigures This is the key.. Make them elevated, lofty, spiritual and your power over them be Limitless…. Art of sedu**…

Most people believe themselves to be inwardly greater than they outwardly appear to the world.... Could be artist, thinkers, leaders, spiritualfigures This is the key.. Make them elevated, lofty, spiritual and your power over them be Limitless.... Art of sedu**...