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Purpose, Need and Destiny!! Friends…and….Life..?

On reaching maturity and going through the ups and downs of life this is what the true meaning of life is ..

Everything changes by time. Feelings are nothing in this world. People only think about ownselves .. -A truth of this “kalyug” . We are just born to this world at this “yug”. Everyone want their needs and once those needs are fulfilled they leave as you are nothing more than a piece of gum. This world is a very cruel place. Not everyone think of you.

-Lessons of life

These are some of the lessons that we all have seen or learned as we grow in our life. This is truth.

The Power is the one thing which rules the world. The whole human human civillisation is based on it. The one who has ‘power’ is the one who is ‘loved’ by all. Or we can say that the one who has power is needed by all . This means that this world needs nothing from you when you are weak or you have a hard time . This realisation lay us into the bed of arrows.

People want you only, when you have money a, fame or power. Its a evidence from history till date For example-

Even marriage system of every country is also true. Nobody wants to marry their girls to the man who is not having a secured job or is not wealthy. . Even the boy’s side is also the same they also want a girl who is able to do all household work and also does job. Who serves all the family members in need. And also good in looks.

-Reality

This is a vicious circle where we all running.,like a rattrap

As moving ahead I have a lot question in my mind which are unanswered. But before writing this post I have also changed my views and I had selected my life over a relationship. That a girl needs from me . This is truth she is a girl might got marry the other men but what about me who will come along with me If I’m not so rich. Or I don’t have a government Job. Even all the things change. Might be she was not meant for me or I had not meant for her. Or there is a lack of trust among us. She don’t has faith on me or I don’t have on her too.

One question always remains in our mind that -Should our friends stay with us if we are not successful or should our relatives accept us even when we don’t have a bulk of money. I think no. the truth is that we only call our friends when we need them,we generally never ask them how they are or what is happening in their lives. It is truly said in a book that I recently read that -“our circle is getting bigger but the main connection is getting diminished or lost “. It’s very true.

The truth is that no one cares about you We only responsible for our own self. Even love is nothing more than a lust or a mutual needs. No one remains with you during hard times . We only have trust on our parents whom we can blindly trust. No one cares for us. Or for our needs.

Besides all this what should be the purpose of our life that we live ..?

Isn’t the question that we all face or have in our mind. What to do with out own self. Should we get affected by the circumstances or ups and downs of life. And what if you are emotional and you think a lot for all. Who will help you and who is with you. Who are our true friends or when we need them the most.. Or who should be our friends who can help us in our lives…?

As I had read many books and also observed that the main purpose of life is to find a purpose. And everything is revolved around that point. Our every decision and things are based on this factor. The destiny is nothing but more or less than what we made from our life . Our friends our life is all this . During the hard time we have faith in God and during the Good time we say God is happy. But according to me when we are focussed in our life or when we are more directed towards a definite goal we don’t have time to think about time. About what is time and how it is passing . According to Dr.Victor Frankel the author of book ‘Man Search for Meaning’. Our life is nothing but is full of sufferings. We have problems and tensions with us as it is observed that the person who dont have money worries how to get that but a man who has is worried how to use the money. The same exist with all of us. And its true that life is full of sufferings. But the same thing is that the time does not always remains the same. What conditions on faces at one time is easily replaced by the time. Time heals . And time is all what is life…!!

Coming to what is people and what are their needs and what are their desire. They always try to connect to themselves with a big . As we see during the times of elections event the small children call themselves

“hum ounhike kaaryakarta hain”

same they don’t know even how to clean their shits are doing the support for the one party. This is true and practically proved too. Thus now coming back to the topic that what should be the purpose, what are the needs and what is Destiny ..!! who are our friends and what should be the life ..!!

Now giving a brief of what I’m trying to say and what I have understood from my life is that-

Life is nothing but to give it a meaning we need to give it a “purpose”. That purpose is the main thing. It decides what we do and whom we are with. It guides all decisions of our daily life and it makes us what we truely are . Our friends and our relationships are all based on this. But the game is that when you are doing Good they will remain with you. I mean that when you are in power people come to your life and when you don’t have money, fame or power they all leave. Our parents and very few people only remains with us. To live a life, we should move on a track even when its doing good or bad we should have the same response towards it. To don’t get affected by time. It’s a journey and we should enjoy each every step..

Thankyou for your precious time . Please do make efforts to give your comments and also correct me if I’m less correcrt or I get out of track. 🙂

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