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Love is risk !!

Someone told me that love is selfless , they were right.

What we give is not guarenteed that we will get in return and we also dont know that weather the person is fully into us or not ..?Strange yeah..

Many times we spend a lot time and energy , and emotional indulgance into someone who is not into us or is not willing to be with us..!! so the result is pain and suffering

But why do people face such traumas ..?

Have u ever think about it or not ..yes .From my own experience I realised that we should keep some boundries and we should know till which level we should get into intimate with our partners both emotionally and physically. As no body knows that what future is to be , yet nothing can be decided but still after going to some level of intimacy , its very hard for one in both to be get back. As being with friends is different and being with someone who is more than friend is different .

The other person should know the boundries to make with the other as all have different level of energies and its all that plays into role .

As in every relation boundries are important .It doesnt matter that u r friend , relative,mother and father or two boys are friend, even when two girls are friends it should be there .If there are no boundries the relationships fails.

As an Architect I know what works I do what is the role of civil engineers .We all have a specific field where we are masters so with respect to that for a better building of functionally and structurally. There should be boundries that should be maintained . Thus It’s important .

When the boundries are not set the works merge and tand traumas start the mutual trust and mutual respect is even lost.Even sometimes the relationships can be even so toxic than the vish (or poison) .That might harm us a lot

It would not kill us ones but keep on killing us regularly .

That would be so hard. Even in brother and sisters and father and sin there are some boundries that should be respected for a better life and long lasting relations.

So just keeping it short, we all should first set our boundries and than move forward As by being in boundries we would be more comfortable safe and even more happy we would enjoy our life to te fullest ..

try it in your life and be happy

have a nice day and keep glowing with a smile . πŸ™‚

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Make a bold demand and don’t wave over it… 48 laws of power..

Make a bold demand and don't wave over it... 48 laws of power..
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architecture identity

The world needs, everything for free…

Hey, hello everyone.. Hope you all are doing well in your lives and all your family members are healthy and safe…

What a type of mindset we all have , we are dependent on our government for our food and water. In India its called ” Raashan” which the government provide for free to people who are below poverty line .But for those who are above that also take it and they sell to make money. Thus it’s still exist in our minds the “dependence on others” . But is it very good way to live a life …?

I think not people should not take things for free at least for those things or services on which someone works. Many people try to manipulate the small or youth and they often take their services for granted or for free.

The thing which has a cost should not be free. But after paying the cost people try to say that its not good or its not so worthy , or they need the money back.. The world is filled with such type of people and it shows us that why we still lagging behind .Because our mind works on the same process or thinking . We need everything for free…

As I had recently started my practise of architecture As from last one year we all are stuck at our homes . So I also tried to make use of my skills to have some sort of experience and practical knowledge. I had donefew of the projects. But at the time of paying all people say the same thing or they do a lot of effort in giving the money .I don’t know why .. ? But if they are taking my services and their work is done according to their own expectations at the minimal cost , Why they still don’t want to take out the treasure of their pocket…

Some times they pay half the money and sometimes they make us to call again and again so that we get our money… many people even want our work to be in free they want to see the work or many try to compare the work of two or three with us .. Designs are client specific and they are done in the same way…

Also in adding to your knowledge – nothing is good or bad in design . JUST THERE IS A GROUND THAT DESIGN SERVES THE FUNCTION TO THE MAXIMUM .

If you are making your new project or searching for a designer ,I can help you out .

thankyou for giving your beautiful time and do like share and give your experience of your field and work….

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The best leaders have adhered to certain basic principles, with regor and descipline… Good to great ..

The best leaders have adhered to certain basic principles, with regor and descipline... Good to great ..
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Architectural Psychology by habits – “compound intrest which means “

Hey, Good evening hope you are safe and doing well in your life. This is an article which I think should share with you all .Its about How your house can simply add a lot more to your life just by the power of compounding. I have been planning from last two months to write. But today I got the time to through some light on it.

This is an observation of human psychology about the habits that we adopt in our lives and how we are moulded in the same way.. We all follow a daily routine in our lives like –

1-Waking up in the morning and getting into the things that we do. Like drinking water and doing exercise or meditation. After that we go to take breakfast and do start our daily life as we do. But during this lockdown our habits got affected from this new routine .

2- As Corona causes people all over the world changed their view and lifestyle . Many now started preffering to do the jobs from the homes and they also like to get their paycheck get into their accounts ,bein at home only .Its quiet difficult for people who are living in their old traditional homes to follow the same schedule and also to be efficient in both the places in home as well as in the work.

3-Old traditions are changing -As technology has been upgraded and we all now came from sending ‘khats or letters’ to the online trend .But have you ever imagined how does the architecture plays the role in our well being. Asmany people are now upgrading their lifestyle andthey prefer to work from home .Its quiet easy and also loved by many. But do our homes are made in such a way..? Or do there is a need for changes that needed to be incoorperated. Sitting at one place whole day no physycal exercise ,no recreation no social activity..Is it good for health for a long time.? Mobiles have already put the person in a box and their screen is the world . Isint the lifestyle that causes harm to our human lives..?

Thus to be upgraded and to move with time there is a need for the same .Is there a need to live in the same boring house .Why don’t we make our own house or our living places more well being and welcoming and also to give it more adaptible for our use.Also ,to give the vibes of being at home and getting the same atmosphere as that of the office ,or of a park or of a beach (just feelings or vibes).

4-I don’t know why people try to save money on useful things but they waste them on the luxuries that are of no use.Well architecture is a living art.And its just aform of art which is inhabited by people. Why don’t we understand the basic concepts of compounding and how our atmosphere makes a way towards our personality. The place where we live mould us in one or other way. Thus in order to live a life meningful and purposefully ,why don’t we make our surrounding in manner that makes our living more efficient.(Efficient means to get more from such a small life.)

5- Have you read about the concept of compound intrest. ?.Its reason why warren buffet had been in the list of richest person froma alrge span of time.Yes,accourding to the Albert Enstien-

Compound intrest is the eighth wonder of the world ,he who understands it ,earns it ….. he who doesn’t…pays it.

by ALBERT EINSTIEN

well its true there are many stories of the same I will share the link of it in the next para,

https://youtu.be/jnN830nnufk

6-So,now lets imagine you are living in a house and you see that the house guides you in such a way that you do all the basic life activities and all the important jobs like having a fresh air vibes of garden in your bedroom, than a arrangement of having a glass of water than, you are shifted towards the area where you practise yoga , than you get time to relax and feed your garden trees with water meanwhile you get relaxed and also get time to live with trees and you can also brush your teeth in the mean time.

7- As the old saying -health is wealth , now a new thing that people follow is a time is money, Now let’s imagine how much time you save and how much money you will save in your lifetime,if you follow a same schedule.

8-Its a common reason why people don’t do meditations or the exercise because there homes usually don’t have a place for the same or the space does not excites them to do so. According to my experience, people do follow the schedule if they are guided in such a way this is how psychology of human work and with time it becomes a habit. Keep on counting the benefits that I’m giving you. You are also having a good health your schedule of life is also balanced and you get time to sit with the trees and you also get time for yourself. staying away from social media and television for some time,in this time time you can think of your life.

9-As one chapter is finish , now lets come to the second phaseof our life what we do , than after relaxation we have a good time with the children and old parents for the breakfast.If a space is suitable than th things would help in a better way and the love among the menbers would also increase.

10-Proper spaces for dining, for all the activities,will also save your time and make the management more effficient.

thankyou for giving your beautiful time … do share your thaughts about how your homes and workplaces can be upgraded so that you can have a more efficient lifestyle. πŸ™‚

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Men are ready to repay a injury than a benefit, because gratitude is burden and revenge a pleasure

Men are more ready to repay the injury than A benefit, because gratitude is a burden and revenge is a pleasure...!!!
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Story of ‘My 1000 likes..’

Yeah, I’m feeling very excited to share with you all, that finally I Got ‘1000’ likes on my blog,. Lifearchitecture LiFE+ArcHitecture it’s a great feeling for me personally… Thankyou all my dear friends, Sir , Mam and all… This is only because all of you that I’m able to keep this as my skill and also get the support of all great people who acts as a family for me… I feel . During my tough time I used this as a medium to keep myself busy and now It became a hobby for me to write my views and ideas .. WordPress helped me a lot in giving a platform and all the audience whom I can connect at any time.. It gives me a greater perspective and also helped me a lot to think differently on problems..

From the bottom of my heart, I Thankyou all for supporting and showing your love towards me… Thankyou… β€πŸ˜‡πŸ™Œ. And do keep giving me new ideas and supporting my content…

Do share your story also.. If you liked mine.. Or the memory of your journey on wordpress… I’m waiting for your love..

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Let’s take a view to my balcony garden-

This climber is special as it I brought it from lucknow last year just before the Corona pandemic. This month 16th of March.. 2020 … The whole corona is quiet easy with my garden… They make my life easily and also adds peace to my mental health.. It is very good to see the trees that we plant and than they bless us with lot blessings like.. Love, care and peace of mind… It’s my hobby… All of us should make a small space in our house and do gardening.. It is very good for a life.. And brings life style.. ❀..

The name is parda bel.. In hindi origin.. And it requires less water and grows at a very fast speed.. It is an Famous bel which is used in the gardens and it adds beauty to the Architectural space. It is very good to see such. Plants…

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Just an example of Modern Architecture- the Falling Water by -Frank Lloyd Wright…

This is the sketch of master piece by Great Architect of modern architecture..

By – Utkarsh Mishra
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Our Ancesters were master’s

Our mind is the onlyΒ  thing whose limits are infinite.. Hey welcome you all hope you are doing well.. Let’s discuss today about our beliefs and our old traditions in our culture..

Yesterday I attended a function I heard my father saying that ki humein kabhi bhi bura nahi bolna chahiye apne baare mein.. Means we should never talk negative about ourselves… Because within the 24 hours Maa Saraswati aprm Godess Saraswati comes to our young.. She make the things to happen..

It’s a old saying and we all believed it.  But scientifically it’s proven that our mind is so powerful it soaks all the things that we speak from our mouth.. But our mind does not has a tendency to find what is good and what is bad for us.. It’s so immature to find the difference between what is positive and what is negative.. After listening to my father I start thinking about it.. And than I realised that our ancestors know about the power of subconcious mind and also they know much more about it..

Still today many old beliefs and baatein Or thaughts of our grand fathers and gurus are 100% correct.. They are never wrong. I just like all the “kahawats” the sayings that we hear from people.. It also adds beauty to our talks and also gives us more value.. And the best thing is that they teach us much more about the life than we know..

Just a random thaught..

Please do like and share your thaughts.. πŸ˜‡.. Please share some of your favourite thaughts or sayings of your grandfathers of older people